Top Tips for Hosting a Private Gaming Party Everyone Will Remember
Planning a private gaming party in London? Use these expert tips for themes, schedules, food and tournaments. Book your event at XP Tavern.

Introduction: Make Your Gaming Party Legendary
A private gaming party is more than a booking—it’s a carefully orchestrated experience that blends competition, collaboration and celebration. Whether you’re planning a birthday, a hen or stag pre‑party, or a corporate social, these tips will help you deliver a seamless event guests will talk about for months. For support at every stage, our team at XP Tavern can tailor Private Hire packages and handle the technical setup while you enjoy the night.
1) Set a Clear Theme and Format
Start with a theme that guides your game list, dress code and decor:
- Arcade nostalgia: retro cabinets, 8‑bit décor and high‑score challenges.
- Esports showdown: bracketed tournaments (Smash, Rocket League, Valorant).
- Co‑op chaos: Jackbox party packs, Overcooked and Mario Party for laughs.
- Speed‑run or challenge night: time‑based goals with a live leaderboard.
Pick a format—free play, mini‑tournaments, or a main stage final—and share it with your venue so they can plan layouts and equipment.
2) Curate a Winning Game List
Balance accessibility with depth. Aim for:
- Instant pick‑up titles so everyone can join in quickly.
- Skill‑expressive games for the competitors in the room.
- Short round times to keep the energy high.
Send your list to the venue a week before the event. At XP Tavern, we can pre‑install and test requested titles—just add notes when you .
3) Structure the Schedule Around Food and Finals
Attention spans dip when guests are hungry or waiting. Use this shape:
- Arrival & warm‑ups (30–45 mins): check‑in, drinks, casual matches.
- Group play (60–90 mins): pool play or mini‑games.
- Food break (20–30 mins): drop pizzas, sliders and wings.
- Elimination brackets (45–60 mins): Quarter‑/Semi‑finals.
- Final & awards (20 mins): trophy moment, photos and dessert.
We’ll help you time food drops from our menu to match your programme.
4) Power‑Up the Atmosphere with Audio‑Visuals
Little touches change everything:
- Playlists: genre‑matched background music at comfortable levels.
- Lighting: colour accents for team colours or theme nights.
- Shout‑casting: a friend on the mic or a professional host to call the action.
- Live feed: put the main screen on a projector or video wall for finals.
XP Tavern can supply microphones, projectors and a simple caster desk. Ask via Contact.
5) Keep It Inclusive and Accessible
The best parties welcome every guest:
- Mixed difficulty: pair competitive titles with relaxed party games.
- Clear rules: post match rules and lobby names on screens.
- Accessibility: step‑free access, adjustable desks, seating options, quiet zones.
- Age suitability: choose PEGI‑appropriate games for family events.
Share any access needs at booking—we’ll tailor the setup.
6) Food, Drink and Dietary Wins
Great hospitality keeps players smiling:
- Finger‑friendly menu: think shareables that don’t slow play.
- Dietary coverage: label vegetarian, vegan and gluten‑free items.
- Beverage plan: pre‑paid bar tabs, low‑ and no‑alcohol options, themed mocktails.
Browse our Menu and ask about party platters for groups of 12–20.
7) Run a Smooth Tournament (Without the Stress)
If you’re going competitive, plan:
- Seeding & brackets: use a simple single‑elimination tree for speed.
- Match length: best‑of‑one until finals to keep the schedule tight.
- Marshals: one person per 4–6 stations to answer questions and advance brackets.
- Trophies & prizes: medals, custom pins or bar vouchers.
We provide bracket templates and hosts with our Private Hire packages.
8) Capture and Share the Highlights
Memories make the event:
- Photo ops: a themed backdrop for winners.
- Clip capture: recording on the main station; shareable after the event.
- Hashtags & community: encourage guests to tag the venue and each other.
Check our Events to see community nights you can join post‑party.
9) Budget Smart with Packages
Packages keep costs predictable. Compare:
- Per‑head vs. minimum spend: what works for your group size.
- Off‑peak savings: weekday evenings or daytime slots.
- Add‑ons: extra screen, projector, trophies, streamer kit.
Ask our team for a written quote and options for deposits and cancellations.
10) The Final Touches Guests Remember
- Welcome board: your party name on arrival.
- Custom playlist or team colours: small effort, big impact.
- Personalised awards: “Best Assist”, “Clutch of the Night”.
- Take‑home moment: group photo or clip reel link the next day.
We’ll help craft these moments so your private gaming party feels truly bespoke.
Sample 2‑Hour Party Timeline (20 Guests)
- 00:00 Doors open, welcome drink, free play
- 00:20 Ice‑breaker mini‑games (Jackbox)
- 00:40 Smash pools (best‑of‑one), parallel Rocket League doubles
- 01:10 Food drop and social break
- 01:35 Semi‑finals on projector, audience casting
- 01:55 Finals and awards, group photo
Conclusion & Next Steps
A memorable private gaming party blends a clear format, inclusive games, great food and showtime moments. If you’re looking for a private gaming party in London, explore Private Hire, check our menu, or book now. Prefer to talk it through? Start with a quick message on Contact and we’ll tailor a package for you.
FAQs: Private Gaming Parties in London
How many people can a private gaming party host?
We can host intimate groups of 10 up to larger events of 80–120, depending on the format.
Can you help with invitations and graphics?
Yes. We can provide a branded digital invite and social graphics; request this at the time of booking.
Do you offer non‑alcoholic packages?
Absolutely. Our bar includes low‑ and no‑alcohol options and themed mocktails.
Can we bring a cake or decorations?
Yes, permitted items are welcome. Let us know in advance for storage and setup.
Is there support for streaming?
We can provide capture options and a simple caster desk; ask about availability when you enquire.